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About Pare Dating
Pare Dating is transforming the dating experience for mature singles (40+) seeking trust, authenticity, and meaningful connections. We are rebuilding online dating from the ground up with a safety-first approach: mandatory ID verification, background checks, no ghosting, and a Direct-to-Date experience.
We aren't just an app; we are a concierge-style service that guides members from profile creation to curated introductions. We treat people like humans, not swipe-fuel.
The Role
We are looking for a Founding Full-Stack Engineer who builds beautifully and uses AI as a superpower. We don’t just want someone who writes code; we want a builder who can take Figma files, product docs, or raw ideas and turn them into shipped products—quickly and cleanly.
This is an opportunity to be early, shape the entire architecture, and build a product that will genuinely change lives (starting with the founder’s mom, and millions like her).
What You’ll Build
The Core Platform: Maintain the full stack (Next.js, Node.js, Postgres) ensuring performance, scalability, and security and implement new features and feedback from Beta
AI Pipelines: Engineer our unique onboarding system (Voice Recording > Transcript > AI Profile Generation) to simplify profile creation.
Trust Infrastructure: Integrate ID verification, background check APIs, and secure payment flows.
Internal Operations: Build the admin dashboards and concierge ticketing systems that power our manual vetting and matchmaking teams.
The Tech Stack
Frontend: Next.js, Typescript, Tailwind CSS, etc.
Backend: Node.js, TypeScript
Data: Postgres, Supabase, Prisma.
AI: OpenAI API, Embeddings, RAG agents.
Who You Are
AI-Native: You utilize LLM tools (Cursor, Copilot, Claude, OpenAI, Gemini) to accelerate development. You believe in shipping fast and iterating often.
Full-Stack Expert: You are just as comfortable tweaking CSS for a seamless mobile UI as you are optimizing database queries.
Product-Minded: You care about the why and the who, not just the how. You obsess over UX and safety.
Owner Mentality: You are allergic to bureaucracy. You communicate clearly, work well asynchronously, and own problems end-to-end.
Qualifications
Bachelor’s degree in Computer Science/Engineering OR equivalent portfolio of shipped products.
Strong proficiency in TypeScript and modern web frameworks (Next.js preferred).
Experience integrating APIs (scheduling, payments, identity verification).
Bonus: Experience with voice processing, fraud detection, or early-stage startups.
Why Join Pare?
Impact: Build something meaningful that protects real people, not just engagement metrics.
Equity: Significant early-stage equity. You are a core part of the founding team.
Culture: Work with a founder who moves fast, creatively, and decisively.
Flexibility: A true hybrid model: enjoy the focus of remote work with the connection of monthly in-person strategy sessions.
Salary: $140,000- $180,000
February- March Start Date
About the Company
We’re redefining what modern dating looks like for mature singles who value trust, authenticity, and meaningful connection. Every member is ID-verified and background-checked before joining, giving you peace of mind from the very start. Our concierge-style approach makes dating simple and intentional: we guide you from profile setup to curated introductions and real-world dates that feel effortless. At Pare, we believe love at 40+ isn’t about endless swiping — it’s about building relationships with confidence, respect, and j...
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